What would you do?

your wife of a year is a good woman. she cooks, cleans and takes care of you . you have a great life. she loves you to bits &caters to you like your were a king, you dont lift a hand at home. she believes in your dream, supports you &is an equal financial partner in your life. recently , you got in jail ,once for a bar fight , when you had left her at home, she came to visit you in jail &worked very hard to bail you out. she bonded you out , putting herself as surety. she never gave you ah hard time about that , even though one of your flings called while you were in jail &told her what you were up to.after that , you wrecked a car , of which she is the main signer , totalled it , &with no insurance , it leaves both of you in big debt.You went to jail for driving without insuarnce , hit &run coz you ran from the scene of an accident.she bailed you out , with herself as surety , never bothered you about it , but is worried with you about getting the funds to pay the fines